how blessed and lucky we all are♥

If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t follow. I’d be at the bottom to catch them when they fall.

hey guys!I’m going to pop to bed soon. Just letting you guys know I am still alive =D! Just been chilling and relaxing because you guys know I spend so much time to think tis and that~~><
as you guys noe,i was acually been mess up and stressful,mentally on some problem abt my families and my 'a part'.....so is jz like everyone having their mistake and change a lot to me...
so,i was always need friends or my mummy to talk,even this is a wrong way of thinking ,but still because of i have been trust no one in my hse~accept my mummy...
so,my aunt which love me a lot ,she came bk from kl to pray on last friday...
I was talking to to her just now and she inspires me so much. She was telling me how blessed and lucky we all are. We should never be too greedy. Sometimes I talk to her and I tell her things are going too quick for me and she calms me right down. She tells me to prioritize things and stay on ground. So many times we take our lives for granted and focus on things we don’t have rather than have.
She was telling me how lucky we all are. We get to sleep on a comfy & warm bed. We get to browse a computer & surf the entire web. We have toilets. We have heating. We have a roof over our head. We are warm. We get fed. Sometimes we even complain about being too full.
There are children in the world, THOUSANDS of them who have never experienced the feeling of being ‘full’. Many pray for their next meals because they don’t know when it will be. Many risk their lives drinking contaminated water. They don’t have education. They don’t have proper healthcare. You are so lucky! You are one of the most wealthy people in the World already.
i really do felt better after a talk with her~!
Have you ever looked in the mirror and was unhappy with your reflection? Of course! Who hasn’t? You know who’s responsible? The media.
The media are people who make sure you will NEVER be fully content whether its how you look or what you have. They will make you want to COVET. They make you want to envy others. So what happens? You spend months trying to save up for this new handbag. You’ve got it! But 2 months later? They release a NEW bag! Limited edition this time! You wish you waited for the new limited version bag then. It works the same way- technology, fashion, your body, face, everything.
There is of course nothing wrong with being able to achieve all of above but sometimes maybe we get caught up with what we don’t have too much that it becomes unhealthy for ourselves. We’re very blessed guys. Tell yourself this and believe it ^_^ Thank you again to my lovely aunt  for inspiring me and always giving me lifetime lessons.

其实很多事情都是抉择于我们的思想~
虽然我在不久前才刚刚理解这个，还是个初学者，可是这是宝贵的一堂课！
有时候是看我们自己怎么去想，为什么会有纠纷?会有解不开的问题，形成压力，是因为我们的想法极端，如果我们不理会他人，也不要让他人误导我们，让我们在还没有真正理解问题之前就作出选择，那那些问题就有机会让它们不再是问题了。。
打个比方，要是一个人，他去大劫，之后它把那些钱都捐给了老人们，帮助她们，那被大劫的受害者会恨那歹徒，警方也会逮捕他！但是被他救的老人们却会把他当成英雄！
这就是因为每个人都用自己的立场来思考！我们必须也尝试站在别人的立场想想，或许这样你作出的决定也会不一样！
就想日本天灾，难民们，就算是在非常饥饿非常累的时候，他们还是很守次序的排着队等待着购买日常用品，而且他们每个人都只买一天一个人的份量，因为他们都为还在排着对等待的同胞们着想，要是他们多拿了，那其他人是不是就少了??！
你们想想看，要是在马来西亚，我们还会好好排队吗?还会依照份量买吗???
这就是为什么我们必须学会为他人着想，也要学会站在别人的立场上想想！

 

友谊 可以大过天。 死党 不是说说而已。♥

 

 

“Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with them.”